Capture Your Grief, Day 30: My Grief

I want people to say her name, Grace.  I want people to remember her and talk about her not just with me, but with other people.  I want people to see her as a fully fledged member of our family.  I want people to remember that she brought far more joy into this world than sadness.  I want people to know that although losing her broke me, having her, being pregnant with her healed me in ways I cannot yet explain.  She is my first born, my much loved daughter.  I will never be the same because she came, not because she died.